Don’t Mistake Protection for Rejection

Don’t Mistake Protection for Rejection

As a child, I likely would have been described as having a dismissive-avoidant attachment style. Beneath the surface were core wounds that quietly whispered: “I’m not enough.” “My feelings don’t matter.” “It’s not safe to need people.” I am thankful to say – God...
Choosing Connection Over Reaction

Choosing Connection Over Reaction

Yesterday morning, I was met with one of those moments every foster or adoptive parent knows can take your breath away. Our 7-year-old daughter was in a full-blown meltdown. While those moments have become much less frequent because of how much healing she’s...